The Myth Of Freed Sissies

I read an fascinating article in Sissy Mother Magazine the other day which you may have missed. Interesting angle on the so-called freed Sissy myth.

Also, for no reason other than it made me smile here's a photo of a recent Sissy trying to adopt a tough pose. So funny trying to look manly with her pretty black bra showing so prettily through her sheer top.

Onto the article...

The Myth of Freed Sissies

Ever wondered why a Sissy might actually object to being neutered? It's not as though it's anything a Sissy is ever going to need or miss. Well the reason may just lie in the myth of the freed Sissy. A supposed free Sissy may be able to reverse all her changes but this one, absurd though the concept of a freed Sissy may seem. Actually the rather sad and generally short-lived plight of escaped Sissies rather proves the irreversibility of this process, but still the myth persists.

Sissies are in denial from day one....known fact....but even after their Sissy Declaration perhaps the majority of Sissies retain at least some sense of denial. Sissy logic isn't ours but it seems many Sissies still maintain a stubborn belief in a possible miraculous release from Sissydom.

Sissy sub-culture is full of stories of released Sissies sometimes going on to achieve great things, perhaps having families, or being successful. Of course to you and me, seeing that sweet Sissy, perfumed and pantied, washing our clothes, making our beds, sweetly and obediently curtseying and following our every demand, we see no sign of manhood whatsoever. Well sometimes trainers and Mother's are guilty of not squashing these silly ideas in the bud. But sometimes, although a truly good Sissy is one that accepts their place, the illusion of a possible future retraction from their initial identifier, a Sissy exam retest, or a change in rules, lets them cling to the absurd idea of 'release' one day. This false hope has the supposed advantage of maintaining a compliant Sissy.

Let's be clear, the retraction of an identifier is irrelevant once testing is concluded, no second tests are ever allowed, and any change in Sissy Law relates to current treatment of Sissies, testing and identification being the sole responsibility of the High Sissy Council.

So is there any truth at all in the myth of the freed Sissy? Let's look at the supposed top two examples. Simon LeDieu, the fashion designer, and Julian Deese, the writer and patron of SWS (Sissy Welfare Society).

LeDieu first. According to publicists he was freed from Sissydom age 18 because of his obvious prodigious fashion design talents. Well besides design hardly being a permitted Sissy activity, no record of LeDieu can be found on the Sissy Register. This story is merely a publicity ploy especially since it plays on the myth that Sissy's have heightened feminine tastes. Also it has landed LeDieu many referrals for Sissy-wear design.

In the case of Deese there is some little truth, albeit the facts are very important. Deese was one of those rare self reported Sissies. At 17 he reported himself and was assigned to a Sissy school, he changed his mind less than 3 weeks later, just before his delayed Sissy exam. In these unusual circumstances he was 'released'. It appears he had mistakenly misidentified his homosexuality as Sissydom. So whilst Deese does important work for the SWS (Sissy Welfare Society), his habit of identifying himself with Sissies is somewhat disingenuous. Similarly he is not the mythical released Sissy that Sissy sub-culture portrays.

So are Sissies ever released? The short answer is no, no Sissy has ever been 'released' after once having undertaken a Sissy examination. Rarely a boy is realized to be a male after close family identification, but before examination, or the boy is realized to be actually a true male on examination. In a few rare instances Sissy's have been registered but their treatment stopped due to impending terminal health issues. Other than this once a Sissy always a Sissy. Should we let the myth continue? If Mother's ,Partners, and Employers have no objection, despite it's conflict with true Sissy Consciousness maybe it has a place. Personally I'm unconvinced...my USM Sissy maid fully accepts her Sissydom, well at least I think so..then again I've not considered neutering......

Humiliation - Why?

I was in my local supermarket today and witnessed a mother dealing with what I imagined to be a fairly recent and reluctant Sissy. Sissy was obviously not co-operating in some way, but her mother was well up to the task it seemed.

Before Sissy knew it her skirts were up, her delicate frillies on display for all to see, a few quick slaps to bare thigh, her skirts pulled back and the whole business was soon over. Sissy was red faced and contrite, the slaps could barely have hurt but her 'shame' clearly did hurt.

I was just thinking what a well administered little episode this was when to my surprise I heard an elderly lady say to her companion "I don't know why they have to humiliate those Sissies in public like that do you?" Her companion at least wisely did not comment.

I'm still shocked when I hear such uninformed nonsense. This made me decide to quote from my 'Humiliation - Why, When, and How' chapter from my SISI (Syndrome of Inappropriate Sexual Identity) Handbook, where I quote my dearest friend Dr Shelley. As ever my friend gets right to the heart of what to the ill-informed is a controversial subject....the why humiliate a Sissy...

Humiliation – Why, When, and How

Humiliation in some spheres is a controversial and sensitive subject, therefore I have dedicated a chapter to this issue alone.

Let’s deal with the why first of all. Sissies are nearly always in denial, the ‘treatment’ is intended to direct them to their true nature. To achieve this years of false masculine identification have to be broken down. Let’s let Dr Shelley explain :-

‘ It’s not as if you are breaking down a wall, if you take bricks away they stay away, here you take a brick away and due to the stubbornness of Sissies it’s often back again next day. Although I have never found a suitable analogy the closest I can think of as a Doctor is that a Sissies adherence to false male identification is more akin to a disease. So when you try to break down this stubborn false identification the continuing disease can replace any success. Over many years I have found humiliation to be rather akin to an injection to the root of the disease. Of course you are treating the Sissy as femininely in every possible way and therefore slowly breaking down resistance and false self-image. However humiliation, as painful as it may be, gets right to the core of this false self-image. Repeated humiliation breaks down this resistance better than any other tool I have ever tried.’

So humiliation is part of the treatment, not for any misconceived cruelty on the part of the Mother but for the good of the Sissy. It can also be a test of progress. A particular humiliation may cause a complete tantrum in those early weeks, some time later it may just be a bout of tears, a month or so later a little sniffle, the next year a blush, and…well one day it will have little or no effect. Because your Sissy has finally given up this false gender identification.

Here's that article I was talking about in the last post. For those of you considering a Sissy Maid it makes prudent reading....

Sissy Maids – The hidden costs

That sweet modern ‘must have’ may cost a lot lot more than the 2 new dollars an hour you you thought you’d be paying, and she comes with costs and responsibilities you may never have considered.

You’ve just been to a friend's dinner party and have been charmed and made somewhat envious by her stunning new USM Sissy maid. If only your daughters had one tenth of her elegance and poise!

Or you have just witnessed your sister’s rather plain but cutely gauche RSM maid plough through a mountain of ironing with ease and precision, and you sigh at the mountain of ironing awaiting you when you get home.

So you think…for only two measly dollars an hour why don’t we have one!!!

Well you won’t be the first to want one. Sixty-four percent of all employed sissies are maids….and it has to be said…they make wonderful maids.

But….What are the real costs ?…Train your own Sissy and you may only pay a dollar an hour to her Mother or guardian. But that’s a lot of work with often disappointing results. Reserve Sissy Maids (RSM) train and supply a very serviceable Sissy maid for less than two dollars an hour so is it really worth it ? Sissy Maid Agency (SMA) maids cost a little more, and for a more exclusive Ultra Sissy Maid (USM) expect to pay around four dollars an hour. Of course even four dollars per hour seems incredibly inexpensive.

As you may well know, the agency get half the salary and the Mother the other half. Having a Sissy in the family is never going to make you rich !

So….What are the hidden costs ? Well they are many and not always obvious…..

• Food and lodging…even if your maid is partnered or still living at home you have to feed her during her working hours. Sissies aren’t slaves and there are serious repercussions should you fail to care for her properly whilst she’s in your home. If you want Sissy ever to stay on beyond 9 pm you must provide a bedroom that is exclusively hers, government inspectors can and do check facilities, and agencies will almost always make regular checks. USM for example have very specific standards and regardless of what hours you intend to work Sissy they insist on you providing a bedroom.
• Clothing…That deliciously cute frilly uniform doesn’t come free….those seven denier stockings or tights don’t last long even on a precious and attentive Sissy. Even a basic uniform will cost at least 100 dollars, and she’ll need more than one. More exclusive uniforms can easily top 400 dollars. And remember if you have exacting underwear requirements for your ‘dress up dolly’ it’s you that will pay for those precious frilly knickers.

OK you trained her yourself and you don’t insist on a uniform…but you still have to pay for her work clothes, and by law she can’t wear jeans! So as a minimum you’ll be providing her a skirt and blouse, or a dress, and her hosiery. And if you want a maid do you really want her to look like an ugly daughter ?

• Travel… Remember…you have to pay her travel costs if she doesn’t live in. And as you know during hours of darkness all Sissies have to be accompanied in public. So at 5pm on a winter’s evening you can’t just send her home with her bus fare.
• Grooming..Technically you don’t have to pay grooming costs, but all agencies have minimum standards. For RSM or SMA maids expect to pay 40 dollars a week on make up, beauty and hair treatment. USM have much more demanding requirements, and a stricter system of partnered providers. For a USM maid for instance Sissy has to have a minimum of one hair appointment a week. They don’t look that stunning and flawless for nothing! A USM maid will cost you at least 80 dollars a week in grooming alone.
• Training…Even if you train Sissy yourself you have to allow for the time, patience and effort you’ll need. And make sure you are very aware of Sissy employment law..ignorance is no defence. Most people would be well advised to at least employ a qualified Sissy trainer, whereas all agencies train Sissies well, and Sissy will generally know what she can or can’t do, and will very politely and discretely tell you if there is a problem.
• Discipline…Sissies are sissies and as you know many spend their whole lives in denial, so you should expect the odd little tantrum. If you are with an agency they will have a 24 hour call out to deal with minor to major infringements, and they will cover any damage. Self-trainers beware, your insurance cover may not cover you !

But all this aside, oh the luxury to have a Sissy maid at your beck and call !

Sissy Maids - You never can tell!

I'm just so envious of my friend's new USM maid I told you about last week. She's an absolute peach, and oozes femininity so much it's truly impossible to imagine she ever thought she was a male. The idea just seems so absurd.

However most amusingly my friend overheard a private conversation between her new maid and her neighbour's, how can we put it, her neighbour's  rather solid but hard working SMA maid. It appears the SMA maid, in confidence, told my friend's maid she'd finally accepted she was a Sissy and now gave no further resistance to her treatment. Given what an apparently robust thing she is my friend was rather charmed by the young Sissy's sensible attitude.

But imagine my friend's shock when in reply she overheard her sweet elegant darling declare she was 'not' a Sissy and she merely pretended to accept being a Sissy to avoid punishment, and one day she'd be a boy again.

Anyone who knows Sissies would recognise this as not particularly unusual. Some Sissies never accept what they are. But my friend was really taken aback. At first shocked, but when we spoke later highly amused. We both had a rather girlish fit of the giggles the more we thought about it. How could this fragrant, gentle, elegant, soft spoken, pretty, and frankly sexy young Sissy ever imagine she was anything but one hundred per cent Sissy. I'm afraid we laughed so much, and perhaps a glass or two of Chardonnay did not help, but our behaviour summoned a rather nervous Sissy Maid to see if we were all right. Of course Sissy's sweet demeanour only sent us into further fits of giggles much to Sissy's blushing perplexity.

I found quite an interesting article about Sissy Maids in a magazine the other day. I'll put it in my next post, made interesting reading.