Sissies and Feminism

Certain Feminists have some concern over the image of femininity that Sissy’s adhere to. I can understand this to some extent. Sissies tend to be directed to be obedient, gentle, ultra feminine in dress and aspect, to pursue ‘traditional’ feminine pursuits and careers.

This is something of a misconception. With a Sissy we are breaking down years of false image. You can not achieve that half-heartedly. Modern women wear trousers, have high powered jobs, choose not to wear make up, and so on. This is exactly as it should be. However this would be a confusing and ambiguous direction to take a Sissy.

Clear lines are needed to eliminate completely this false maleness. So in treating Sissy’s we do adhere to a very old-fashioned and outdated feminine ‘ideal’. So undies are the frilliest, pursuits are as ‘girly’ as embroidery; the Sissy must speak softly and sweetly. These strong distinctions between male and female have to be there if every ounce of stubborn maleness is to be broken. Once your Sissy is fully treated then by all means allow her some more modern benefits of femininity. However whilst I’d avoid keeping an adult Sissy in little girl frocks, I’d still want to keep her obviously feminine in all respects, given that the danger of relapse is ever present.

There’s another reason for this ‘exaggerated’ femininity. This corresponds to the image of femininity of the uninformed male. This is the nearest to the image a Sissy conceives as feminine before treatment. The silly impossibly frilly lacy panties she wears scream femininity to the unsophisticated Sissy mind. There’s no grey there, its black and white undeniably girly. Settling down to an evening of embroidering pretty flowers onto a silk blouse may seem dull or even stupid to many women, but to the Sissy it’s a total denial of her ‘maleness’, and so justifiably a very worthwhile treatment.

In fact many Mother’s express a rather guiltless pleasure in experimenting in these rather politically incorrect edges of femininity. If the Mother gains some pleasure in what is sometimes an arduous and taxing process then this is a good thing.

So to the discontented Feminists I apologise, but try to understand what is being achieved here, to the greater good of women.

The Myth Of Freed Sissies

I read an fascinating article in Sissy Mother Magazine the other day which you may have missed. Interesting angle on the so-called freed Sissy myth.

Also, for no reason other than it made me smile here's a photo of a recent Sissy trying to adopt a tough pose. So funny trying to look manly with her pretty black bra showing so prettily through her sheer top.

Onto the article...

The Myth of Freed Sissies

Ever wondered why a Sissy might actually object to being neutered? It's not as though it's anything a Sissy is ever going to need or miss. Well the reason may just lie in the myth of the freed Sissy. A supposed free Sissy may be able to reverse all her changes but this one, absurd though the concept of a freed Sissy may seem. Actually the rather sad and generally short-lived plight of escaped Sissies rather proves the irreversibility of this process, but still the myth persists.

Sissies are in denial from day one....known fact....but even after their Sissy Declaration perhaps the majority of Sissies retain at least some sense of denial. Sissy logic isn't ours but it seems many Sissies still maintain a stubborn belief in a possible miraculous release from Sissydom.

Sissy sub-culture is full of stories of released Sissies sometimes going on to achieve great things, perhaps having families, or being successful. Of course to you and me, seeing that sweet Sissy, perfumed and pantied, washing our clothes, making our beds, sweetly and obediently curtseying and following our every demand, we see no sign of manhood whatsoever. Well sometimes trainers and Mother's are guilty of not squashing these silly ideas in the bud. But sometimes, although a truly good Sissy is one that accepts their place, the illusion of a possible future retraction from their initial identifier, a Sissy exam retest, or a change in rules, lets them cling to the absurd idea of 'release' one day. This false hope has the supposed advantage of maintaining a compliant Sissy.

Let's be clear, the retraction of an identifier is irrelevant once testing is concluded, no second tests are ever allowed, and any change in Sissy Law relates to current treatment of Sissies, testing and identification being the sole responsibility of the High Sissy Council.

So is there any truth at all in the myth of the freed Sissy? Let's look at the supposed top two examples. Simon LeDieu, the fashion designer, and Julian Deese, the writer and patron of SWS (Sissy Welfare Society).

LeDieu first. According to publicists he was freed from Sissydom age 18 because of his obvious prodigious fashion design talents. Well besides design hardly being a permitted Sissy activity, no record of LeDieu can be found on the Sissy Register. This story is merely a publicity ploy especially since it plays on the myth that Sissy's have heightened feminine tastes. Also it has landed LeDieu many referrals for Sissy-wear design.

In the case of Deese there is some little truth, albeit the facts are very important. Deese was one of those rare self reported Sissies. At 17 he reported himself and was assigned to a Sissy school, he changed his mind less than 3 weeks later, just before his delayed Sissy exam. In these unusual circumstances he was 'released'. It appears he had mistakenly misidentified his homosexuality as Sissydom. So whilst Deese does important work for the SWS (Sissy Welfare Society), his habit of identifying himself with Sissies is somewhat disingenuous. Similarly he is not the mythical released Sissy that Sissy sub-culture portrays.

So are Sissies ever released? The short answer is no, no Sissy has ever been 'released' after once having undertaken a Sissy examination. Rarely a boy is realized to be a male after close family identification, but before examination, or the boy is realized to be actually a true male on examination. In a few rare instances Sissy's have been registered but their treatment stopped due to impending terminal health issues. Other than this once a Sissy always a Sissy. Should we let the myth continue? If Mother's ,Partners, and Employers have no objection, despite it's conflict with true Sissy Consciousness maybe it has a place. Personally I'm unconvinced...my USM Sissy maid fully accepts her Sissydom, well at least I think so..then again I've not considered neutering......

Humiliation - Why?

I was in my local supermarket today and witnessed a mother dealing with what I imagined to be a fairly recent and reluctant Sissy. Sissy was obviously not co-operating in some way, but her mother was well up to the task it seemed.

Before Sissy knew it her skirts were up, her delicate frillies on display for all to see, a few quick slaps to bare thigh, her skirts pulled back and the whole business was soon over. Sissy was red faced and contrite, the slaps could barely have hurt but her 'shame' clearly did hurt.

I was just thinking what a well administered little episode this was when to my surprise I heard an elderly lady say to her companion "I don't know why they have to humiliate those Sissies in public like that do you?" Her companion at least wisely did not comment.

I'm still shocked when I hear such uninformed nonsense. This made me decide to quote from my 'Humiliation - Why, When, and How' chapter from my SISI (Syndrome of Inappropriate Sexual Identity) Handbook, where I quote my dearest friend Dr Shelley. As ever my friend gets right to the heart of what to the ill-informed is a controversial subject....the why humiliate a Sissy...

Humiliation – Why, When, and How

Humiliation in some spheres is a controversial and sensitive subject, therefore I have dedicated a chapter to this issue alone.

Let’s deal with the why first of all. Sissies are nearly always in denial, the ‘treatment’ is intended to direct them to their true nature. To achieve this years of false masculine identification have to be broken down. Let’s let Dr Shelley explain :-

‘ It’s not as if you are breaking down a wall, if you take bricks away they stay away, here you take a brick away and due to the stubbornness of Sissies it’s often back again next day. Although I have never found a suitable analogy the closest I can think of as a Doctor is that a Sissies adherence to false male identification is more akin to a disease. So when you try to break down this stubborn false identification the continuing disease can replace any success. Over many years I have found humiliation to be rather akin to an injection to the root of the disease. Of course you are treating the Sissy as femininely in every possible way and therefore slowly breaking down resistance and false self-image. However humiliation, as painful as it may be, gets right to the core of this false self-image. Repeated humiliation breaks down this resistance better than any other tool I have ever tried.’

So humiliation is part of the treatment, not for any misconceived cruelty on the part of the Mother but for the good of the Sissy. It can also be a test of progress. A particular humiliation may cause a complete tantrum in those early weeks, some time later it may just be a bout of tears, a month or so later a little sniffle, the next year a blush, and…well one day it will have little or no effect. Because your Sissy has finally given up this false gender identification.

Sissy Maids - You never can tell!

I'm just so envious of my friend's new USM maid I told you about last week. She's an absolute peach, and oozes femininity so much it's truly impossible to imagine she ever thought she was a male. The idea just seems so absurd.

However most amusingly my friend overheard a private conversation between her new maid and her neighbour's, how can we put it, her neighbour's  rather solid but hard working SMA maid. It appears the SMA maid, in confidence, told my friend's maid she'd finally accepted she was a Sissy and now gave no further resistance to her treatment. Given what an apparently robust thing she is my friend was rather charmed by the young Sissy's sensible attitude.

But imagine my friend's shock when in reply she overheard her sweet elegant darling declare she was 'not' a Sissy and she merely pretended to accept being a Sissy to avoid punishment, and one day she'd be a boy again.

Anyone who knows Sissies would recognise this as not particularly unusual. Some Sissies never accept what they are. But my friend was really taken aback. At first shocked, but when we spoke later highly amused. We both had a rather girlish fit of the giggles the more we thought about it. How could this fragrant, gentle, elegant, soft spoken, pretty, and frankly sexy young Sissy ever imagine she was anything but one hundred per cent Sissy. I'm afraid we laughed so much, and perhaps a glass or two of Chardonnay did not help, but our behaviour summoned a rather nervous Sissy Maid to see if we were all right. Of course Sissy's sweet demeanour only sent us into further fits of giggles much to Sissy's blushing perplexity.

I found quite an interesting article about Sissy Maids in a magazine the other day. I'll put it in my next post, made interesting reading.

S.I.S.I. HANDBOOK

I know it may seem vain and immodest to include an extract from my own book in my blog, but I really feel the introduction inspired by my very dear friend and mentor Eveline will be an encouragement to any first time Sissy Mother.

I truly feel the 'Why treat a Sissy?,' section sums up our duty.

Anyway, here's the extract:-

The S.I.S.I. Handbook

By

Greta Elizabeth Venables

With professional psychological input from

Doctor Eveline Anne Shelley

 

Introduction

S.I.S.I. or Syndrome of Inappropriate Sexual Identity was until recently a little known condition, it’s proper treatment sadly misunderstood and neglected. For the purpose of brevity, clarity, and common usage I think it best to continue referring to subjects of SISI syndrome as Sissies, and will continue to do so throughout this handbook. Presented with a Sissy early in life I had little idea of how to proceed. Through a mutual friend I stumbled upon Dr Eveline Shelley, My life was changed, and Sissy’s life was fulfilled.

I will say this now for anyone under any illusions, SISI syndrome technically can not, as such, be treated. That is treated as in a cure. However what a Mother, Stepmother, or any Guardian of a Sissy has a duty to do is to ensure that the subject is given every opportunity to explore and experience their true sexual identity, and so in time take the life choice that will most lead to a fruitful and honest existence. So purely for the purpose of simplicity we will call this process ‘treatment’.

I have been honoured, and for all the work and application I still do call it an honour, to personally bring to fulfilment four Sissies, and I am currently embarked on heading a fifth and particularly reluctant young Sissy in the right direction. I have been involved in helping, to a greater or lesser extent, at least a dozen Mothers and Stepmothers bring their Sissy offspring to fulfilment. I am not saying that I have yet experienced every problem and pitfall involved in handling a Sissy but I share all my experience in this handbook and added to this the experience of the foremost authority on SISI syndrome Dr Shelley, so I sincerely believe this handbook should be treated with every confidence.

You will have noted that you have in fact received two handbooks. A blue bound handbook, and a pink bound handbook. The blue handbook is your copy and for your eyes only, the pink handbook is for Sissy’s eyes. There are in fact few differences in the books, all of which will be explained in detail. However paragraphs in blue like this one are for your eyes only. Paragraphs in pink are, for good and explained reasons, for Sissy’s eyes only, and as such are not to be treated as real advice. All other text, which is most of the handbook, is open to both of you.

This may at first seem a little confusing but will ultimately make sense. It may in fact seem odd to allow Sissy to see so much, but remember that self-awareness is the key to ‘treating’ SISI syndrome. The subject being totally aware of the reasons why the Sissy is treated is an important part of the treatment process.

I have split the handbook into a number of clearly identifiable sections. Although the handbook should be read in the whole at least once by Mother and several times by Sissy, it is also a reference book and you may choose to dip into the handbook for specific guidance.

I take the opportunity here to wish you both safe paths on your journey. Mother, try to enjoy the experience. Experiment, discover, and take pleasure from what may at first be small advances. Sissy, it will be especially difficult at first, remember this is all done out of love not hatred, try to stop fighting and give in to your true nature and your journey will be much easier.

Why treat a Sissy?

“Not only is it appropriate to ‘treat’ a Sissy, it’s effectively a civil duty” said Dr Shelley in her very first lecture on the subject. This is so very true.

What is a Sissy? To all extents it’s a biological male whose inner nature is suppressed femininity. What’s the likely outcome for such a child or young adult. Well the subject may well get married and will prove a terrible provider. Sissy’s have little concentration and are often quite selfish. They will most likely be less than satisfying sexually. Whilst your Sissy may put up a terrible fight at first remember in a year or so that the Sissy that dresses herself, applies her own make-up, talks and walks so femininely is the same child. No real male would ever allow himself to be made so feminine, but Sissy’s aren’t real males, they often have a strong (very strong sometimes) belief in their maleness, but that’s the limit of their strength.

An untreated Sissy may even have children. The terrible role model they set may affect generations. Bad provider, weak, unreliable, self centred. Dr Shelley has carried out a number of studies on untreated Sissies. In the most recent study of a thousand untreated Sissies that she identified, 541 were divorced, and 289 had dissatisfied partners. Where they were parents 76 percent of children were unhappy with their upbringing. Two thirds of untreated Sissy’s had unrewarding and low status jobs. The untreated Sissies were most often dissatisfied themselves.

Whereas in contrast all ‘treated’ Sissies were delights to their Mothers. Where they had partners the partners were more than satisfied sexually and emotionally. Though Sissy’s will never have children, in the few cases where they were given charge over children, they proved surprisingly good carers. Employers, once used to the firmness required to handle a Sissy, found their Sissy’s to be very good workers. Most importantly the possible future negative contamination of an ‘untreated’ Sissy was totally eliminated.

Living a lie is destroying. Living a lie where you lie to yourself is doubly damaging. Feel no pity, a ’treated’ Sissy is a happier outcome for all concerned.

 

*** Please Read - Disclaimer *** THIS IS A FICTIONAL BLOG

This blog is set in a fantasy world. A world scewed from our own where Mothers create Sissies and nobody blinks. All entries will be part of the fantasy story unless clearly shown like this one. Readers who read this do so to imagine themselves as the Sissy victim, not the aggressor. Nobody suggests any of the what goes on in this blog is ever applied to anyone in reality. It's no more real than Dungeons and Dragons..get it?

I'd like comments as if from the fictional world if possible, but any comment welcome, so feel free to enter into the world.

Just to recap:-

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