S.I.S.I. HANDBOOK

I know it may seem vain and immodest to include an extract from my own book in my blog, but I really feel the introduction inspired by my very dear friend and mentor Eveline will be an encouragement to any first time Sissy Mother.

I truly feel the 'Why treat a Sissy?,' section sums up our duty.

Anyway, here's the extract:-

The S.I.S.I. Handbook

By

Greta Elizabeth Venables

With professional psychological input from

Doctor Eveline Anne Shelley

 

Introduction

S.I.S.I. or Syndrome of Inappropriate Sexual Identity was until recently a little known condition, it’s proper treatment sadly misunderstood and neglected. For the purpose of brevity, clarity, and common usage I think it best to continue referring to subjects of SISI syndrome as Sissies, and will continue to do so throughout this handbook. Presented with a Sissy early in life I had little idea of how to proceed. Through a mutual friend I stumbled upon Dr Eveline Shelley, My life was changed, and Sissy’s life was fulfilled.

I will say this now for anyone under any illusions, SISI syndrome technically can not, as such, be treated. That is treated as in a cure. However what a Mother, Stepmother, or any Guardian of a Sissy has a duty to do is to ensure that the subject is given every opportunity to explore and experience their true sexual identity, and so in time take the life choice that will most lead to a fruitful and honest existence. So purely for the purpose of simplicity we will call this process ‘treatment’.

I have been honoured, and for all the work and application I still do call it an honour, to personally bring to fulfilment four Sissies, and I am currently embarked on heading a fifth and particularly reluctant young Sissy in the right direction. I have been involved in helping, to a greater or lesser extent, at least a dozen Mothers and Stepmothers bring their Sissy offspring to fulfilment. I am not saying that I have yet experienced every problem and pitfall involved in handling a Sissy but I share all my experience in this handbook and added to this the experience of the foremost authority on SISI syndrome Dr Shelley, so I sincerely believe this handbook should be treated with every confidence.

You will have noted that you have in fact received two handbooks. A blue bound handbook, and a pink bound handbook. The blue handbook is your copy and for your eyes only, the pink handbook is for Sissy’s eyes. There are in fact few differences in the books, all of which will be explained in detail. However paragraphs in blue like this one are for your eyes only. Paragraphs in pink are, for good and explained reasons, for Sissy’s eyes only, and as such are not to be treated as real advice. All other text, which is most of the handbook, is open to both of you.

This may at first seem a little confusing but will ultimately make sense. It may in fact seem odd to allow Sissy to see so much, but remember that self-awareness is the key to ‘treating’ SISI syndrome. The subject being totally aware of the reasons why the Sissy is treated is an important part of the treatment process.

I have split the handbook into a number of clearly identifiable sections. Although the handbook should be read in the whole at least once by Mother and several times by Sissy, it is also a reference book and you may choose to dip into the handbook for specific guidance.

I take the opportunity here to wish you both safe paths on your journey. Mother, try to enjoy the experience. Experiment, discover, and take pleasure from what may at first be small advances. Sissy, it will be especially difficult at first, remember this is all done out of love not hatred, try to stop fighting and give in to your true nature and your journey will be much easier.

Why treat a Sissy?

“Not only is it appropriate to ‘treat’ a Sissy, it’s effectively a civil duty” said Dr Shelley in her very first lecture on the subject. This is so very true.

What is a Sissy? To all extents it’s a biological male whose inner nature is suppressed femininity. What’s the likely outcome for such a child or young adult. Well the subject may well get married and will prove a terrible provider. Sissy’s have little concentration and are often quite selfish. They will most likely be less than satisfying sexually. Whilst your Sissy may put up a terrible fight at first remember in a year or so that the Sissy that dresses herself, applies her own make-up, talks and walks so femininely is the same child. No real male would ever allow himself to be made so feminine, but Sissy’s aren’t real males, they often have a strong (very strong sometimes) belief in their maleness, but that’s the limit of their strength.

An untreated Sissy may even have children. The terrible role model they set may affect generations. Bad provider, weak, unreliable, self centred. Dr Shelley has carried out a number of studies on untreated Sissies. In the most recent study of a thousand untreated Sissies that she identified, 541 were divorced, and 289 had dissatisfied partners. Where they were parents 76 percent of children were unhappy with their upbringing. Two thirds of untreated Sissy’s had unrewarding and low status jobs. The untreated Sissies were most often dissatisfied themselves.

Whereas in contrast all ‘treated’ Sissies were delights to their Mothers. Where they had partners the partners were more than satisfied sexually and emotionally. Though Sissy’s will never have children, in the few cases where they were given charge over children, they proved surprisingly good carers. Employers, once used to the firmness required to handle a Sissy, found their Sissy’s to be very good workers. Most importantly the possible future negative contamination of an ‘untreated’ Sissy was totally eliminated.

Living a lie is destroying. Living a lie where you lie to yourself is doubly damaging. Feel no pity, a ’treated’ Sissy is a happier outcome for all concerned.